- Loving yourself is the most powerful aspect you can have in the relationship you have with yourself
1. They Take Ownership Of Their Lives And Stay Present
The day I became free was the day I chose myself and took ownership over every facet of my life. It’s not our parents’, friends’, bosses’, significant others’, nor society’s responsibility to hand us our dreams – it’s ours.
You are ultimately responsible for all of your decisions and where you currently are in life.
Design your own rules and refuse to blindly follow what others deem ‘so-called happiness’. Don’t overload yourself with regret by focusing on the past nor fixate on a future that will leave you anxious about something which most likely won’t come to fruition. Place all your focus on the present, which is the only thing you can control.
This moment is ultimately all there is, no time is better than now to go after what you truly want.
2. They Only Hang Around People Who Add Value To Their Lives
People who make you feel anxious, depressed or angry don’t deserve to be apart of your life and certainly don’t deserve your precious time. Take note of the people in your life and assess whether each person is adding value or taking energy away (also known as an energy vampire).
The wrong type of people in your life are just as bad as having leeches covering your body and sucking the life out of you. The wrong type of people will lead to crappy relationships and place you further away from your dreams.
To live the life you dream, you have to make bold decisions and this starts with being picky about who deserves your time and energy.
3. They’re Lifelong Students
If your days consist of junk food information such as mind numbing reality shows, refreshing Facebook, and tuning in to the news 24/7, then you aren’t living anywhere close to a rich life. Input equals output. If you’re consuming junk food information, your life is going to be junk food quality as well.
The more quality knowledge you seek, the better of a thinker you are, and the better quality of life you’ll have.
There are plenty of avenues to quench your knowledge besides sitting in a classroom. Examples include workshops, books, learning from others, meetups and signing up for free lessons on learning websites like Coursera.
Making yourself a lifelong learner is a way to continually improve yourself, and what finer way to practice loving yourself than to consistently improve upon yourself ?
4. They See Life Full Of Abundance
Those who are cynical and not loving will view the world in a matter of scarcity. A scarcity mindset feels there isn’t enough business to go around, not enough opportunities, and that life has too much going against them to succeed.
When you see the world in abundance, there’s no need for selfish behaviors due to there being plenty of wealth, business and opportunity for everyone.
This is the greatest time to be alive and living out a dream. It comes down to a matter of your perspective on whether you’ll thrive in life or stay comfortable in your excuses.
5. They Only Focus On The Controllable Aspects Of Life
Most things in life are out of our hands, yet we worry ourselves and still come to no conclusion over the matter. Just as death and taxes are inevitable, so too are bad things occasionally sprouting up in our lives.
While you can’t control external situations that go bad, you can choose how you respond to them. Self-loving people understand that they are in control of their responses and no one can take that away unless they allow them to.
6. They Place A Priority On Their Health
When you’re ignoring your health, you’re sending the message that you’re not important.
People who love themselves understand that a rich and healthy life entails a focus on mind, body, spirit and emotional health.
Exercising will cover the body aspect. But also mentally challenge yourself each day with exercises or activities that make your brain think. Practice your spirituality by giving gratitude daily and meditating to calm yourself.
Be emotionally healthy by only hanging around positive people and speaking in positive manners.
7. They Realize They’re Good Enough As Is
If you don’t think you’re good enough, beautiful enough, smart enough or deserving enough, then no one else will either.
Before you can truly thrive in life, you must acknowledge and let go of chasing the ghost of perfection. Accept yourself as is. Don’t let your perceived flaws or mistakes become a detriment to living a fulfilled life.
Your mistakes won’t ruin your life – that’s where growth happens.
Give yourself permission to go after what you want. You are more than capable, strong enough, and smart enough as is. You can still seek improvement, but never let self-doubt stop you from even trying.